PART 3

To love is to let go.

When I feel that a person doesn't love me anymore, I take the initiative to let go of that person. For me it's not giving up, nor making it easy for him to break up with me, but simply giving myself a favor to not dwell on all the hurting and pain caused by him. Ipagpipilitan ko pa ba ang sarili ko kung hindi na sya masaya? Ang hirap sabihing hindi, kasi alam mo sa puso mo na gustong gusto mo pa ayusin pero may magagawa ka pa ba kung ayaw na nya? Kaya ko naman magparaya. At dahil mahal ko sya, iisipin ko kung ano ang tama. Magdudulot man yun ng sakit sa part ko, pero kung dun sya masaya, il let go. It's just a matter of being mature enough to accept if things won't work out. Alam ko parang napaka-imposible ng mga sinasabi ko. But believe me, it can happen. Jan naman si Lord, ask Him to free your heart from pain and the next time you love again, ask Him this time to guard your heart. Tsaka sana matuto ka din sa mga pagkakamali mo. Kasi kung kayo, kayo. Wala naman pwedeng bumago sa naitakda na. Ganun lang talaga ang buhay. People come and go. We just have to be thankful din na dumating sila sa buhay naten. Ang importante yung bagay na matututunan mo sa experience na yun. You need to learn how to face changes sa buhay and embrace new things. Kaya nga may bukas eh, to remind us that what happened in the past stays there. Everyday is another chance, be thankful. Lagi mo isipin naging masaya ka nga sa taong yun eh,for sure mas magiging masaya ka pag dumating na yung taong tinadhana para sayo. Ok lang na umasa ka malay mo isa sa mga nakaraan bumalik, we never know. It might just be "the right love at the wrong time". Someday, you'll figure out that God is holding both your hands to hold each other in the right time. Im not giving false hope or anything like that. Its like building a chance kung sa tingin mo nakikita mo na sya yung maaaring makasama mo in the future. Si God lang nakakaalam. At tulad nga ng sinabi ko, wala naman pwede bumago sa bagay na naitakda na. Life goes on...Love the life you live. You just have to derive destiny from choice. If you have God in you, ang mangyayari yung mga choices mo yun yung tinakda para Nya sayo. You just have to do the right thing, in God's way. Gets mo yung logic ko? Minsan kasi nababago yung interpretation naten between destiny and choice. Base sa experience ko, kahit anong pilit mo gawin ang isang bagay na hindi ginusto ni God para sayo, malabo mo talaga makukuha yun. Yung point ko lang, sana wag mo kalimutan din si God kung magmamahal ka. God is love.